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BrokenFrag · 03-31-2008, 06:21 AM

Hang in there and keep your head up. I am in the same boat as you in that my wife wants to leave, but has said she loves me and wants to "work" on our marriage. The problem is that she doesn't want it as badly as I do because she isn't sexually attracted to me anymore.

It doesn't help the pain go away right away, or make my situation any better to be in, but I have found that exercise helps lift my spirits. It is something that is good for me, and the body releases endorphins (happy molecules!) when you workout.

Try to remember that you feel pain because you care. If your husband has stopped caring, there may be nothing you can do, but never stop caring for yourself and your relationships. Karma will reward you if you do everything you can to help yourself and your marriage. Good luck.

03-31-2008, 06:21 AM	#2 (permalink)
BrokenFrag Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 81	Re: Please help...I feel so low today Hang in there and keep your head up. I am in the same boat as you in that my wife wants to leave, but has said she loves me and wants to "work" on our marriage. The problem is that she doesn't want it as badly as I do because she isn't sexually attracted to me anymore. It doesn't help the pain go away right away, or make my situation any better to be in, but I have found that exercise helps lift my spirits. It is something that is good for me, and the body releases endorphins (happy molecules!) when you workout. Try to remember that you feel pain because you care. If your husband has stopped caring, there may be nothing you can do, but never stop caring for yourself and your relationships. Karma will reward you if you do everything you can to help yourself and your marriage. Good luck.