Thank you for the words of wisdom
I've been really happy lately... its weird because I didn't think I would feel this happy after leaving, maybe it's because he's being such an idiot right now that it makes me know that I made the right decision, didn't waste anymore time with him and I'm free to move on now. I did go to my lawyer last week and I asked for half... of everything... he's not going to like that, but he doesn't deserve me being nice to him anymore... so I'm just going to take what the law says I can have. Court is next week- yay!!!