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Old 03-19-2012, 10:42 AM   #14 (permalink)
morituri
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Default Re: Wife still works with EA partner, thinking of getting her to quit

Some betrayed spouses can reconcile with their unfaithful spouses after an affair, and some can't. It simply means that for some people an affair is an automatic deal breaker - I am one of those people - and for some it isn't. It doesn't make one group better than the other. Which of these two do you belong to? The answer is important because if you choose incorrectly then it doesn't matter if your wife quits her job, and moves heaven and earth in her efforts to prove to you that she will never be the woman who betrayed you, you will not be able to reconcile and will eventually end up filing for divorce. So think carefully and be honest as to which of the two groups you belong to.
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