Originally Posted by chaos
I never liked the idea of dating while I was technically married to my then wife. The reason is that I would question what kind of woman would run the risk of becoming involved with a man who had the potential of reconciling with his wife at any moment? A needy woman is one that comes to mind.
That was also one of my nagging questions while I was waiting for my divorce to become finalized - like a pesky mosquito buzzing close to my ear at night. It felt almost like that old Groucho Marx quotation "I don't want to belong to any club that will accept me as a member".