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bippy17 · 03-20-2012, 10:12 AM

Thanks JayB. Wow. What you said made so much sense and really struck me to open up to things I would have never thought of so thanks again.

She always said I looked at things on the negative side. She always said I (me) was never happy and complaining about something or someone. Maybe I can change my outlook on things and stop the negativity. I know I can and will.

She is crying to me today (in an email) saying "I am sick, and sad, and tired, and sorry" her exact words. How do I answer that? Do I stay strong and not reply and make it like I'm not jumping at the slightest thing she sends me? I want to, but think alot of this is phycological and I need to ignore it to get better. Am I wrong?? So damm lost. ughhh

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bippy17 Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: New Jersey Posts: 30	Re: Separation is so painful I can't describe it. Trying to Man Up! Thanks JayB. Wow. What you said made so much sense and really struck me to open up to things I would have never thought of so thanks again. She always said I looked at things on the negative side. She always said I (me) was never happy and complaining about something or someone. Maybe I can change my outlook on things and stop the negativity. I know I can and will. She is crying to me today (in an email) saying "I am sick, and sad, and tired, and sorry" her exact words. How do I answer that? Do I stay strong and not reply and make it like I'm not jumping at the slightest thing she sends me? I want to, but think alot of this is phycological and I need to ignore it to get better. Am I wrong?? So damm lost. ughhh