Kenya26

Since you state that this has always been an issue, I really cant or wont jump to the conclusion that there is someone else present. I really feel that she does have some issues with sex and they could steem from a lot of different reasons. However, if a counselor nor you could get to the root of them, I am not sure who can help her if she is not willing to help herself. It is not normal, no matter how long a couple has been married to not have sex. If you cant have a healthy sex life with your spouse, then who? I would suggest appealing to your wife in a different manner, not confrontational, just inquisitively. Inquire about the number of sex partners she has had in life, and maybe delve into her childhood a little bit. A life-altering experience can make a woman not enjoy sex anymore, and so can emotional issues that go untreated for a long time. I even experienced this before.

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Kenya26