Re: I need some advice...
Hey Lady...
Don't you feel bad about anything. I experienced this with my husband. Quick question, what is the age difference between you two? That may have something to do with it, sometimes women hit sexual peaks at different times then men do. Also, if you have tried everything possible on your behalf, it is time for your hubby to begin the process of trying as well. Your job is just as hard as his, contrary to what people believe. You have just as many demands placed on you daily as his does. The only difference is you stay at home and take care of business and he leaves to take care of his. No more excuses! If you can't get love from your husband then who? Sit down and have a heart to heart with him, no arguing or yelling. See what he really feels about it. If his only excuse is that this is how he has always been, then your suggestion to be that now is the time for change. When we love someone, we are willing to make sacrifices and changes for them. My experience was that my libido was in over drive and my fiance's was not. Then after we got married and my libido calmed down a bit, his surged. For whatever reason we go through bout's of on/off, but sex in a marriage is very important. It keeps people from allowing their minds and hearts to wander off elsewhere. In the meantime, don't go to be sexually angry. When I went through this I went to purchase a very good toy! When you close your eyes, you would be surprised what you can imagine and how you can let your mind run free and bring yourself to ecstacy. Think about it!
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Kenya26
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