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bippy17 · 03-20-2012, 12:48 PM

Thanks for the reply. Appreciate it. Do I reply to the wife when she tells me she is hurting and sick when she is the one who initiated this? I want to reply but feel like this is a chess match at times. I want to be there for her but have to start thinking of me and healing without her sending me these notes throwing me off and setting me back. I want to give everything I got to win her back but not sure if I do that everytime, when she throws me a crumb or just give her what she wants and ignore it??? I have said too many times how much I love her to her and would do anything to make it right.

Please help, I love the feedback!

03-20-2012, 12:48 PM	#7 (permalink)
bippy17 Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: New Jersey Posts: 30	Re: Separation is so painful I can't describe it. Trying to Man Up! Thanks for the reply. Appreciate it. Do I reply to the wife when she tells me she is hurting and sick when she is the one who initiated this? I want to reply but feel like this is a chess match at times. I want to be there for her but have to start thinking of me and healing without her sending me these notes throwing me off and setting me back. I want to give everything I got to win her back but not sure if I do that everytime, when she throws me a crumb or just give her what she wants and ignore it??? I have said too many times how much I love her to her and would do anything to make it right. Please help, I love the feedback!