Originally Posted by bippy17
Thanks for the reply. Appreciate it. Do I reply to the wife when she tells me she is hurting and sick when she is the one who initiated this? I want to reply but feel like this is a chess match at times. I want to be there for her but have to start thinking of me and healing without her sending me these notes throwing me off and setting me back. I want to give everything I got to win her back but not sure if I do that everytime, when she throws me a crumb or just give her what she wants and ignore it??? I have said too many times how much I love her to her and would do anything to make it right.
Please help, I love the feedback!
I would play it cool. Say you understand. But let your actions speak for you. Remain calm. Relaxed. In control.