juls

Oh yes...I have 3 boys and a girl...My two older boys 13 and 11...Fight like CRAZY and drives me there too. They too went through a stage where they did everything together..I mean everything, now I am lucky to get them to take the trash out without a huge fight outbreak...

But also as someone else said, no one else is allowed to mess with them..lol..My oldest will battle to the death with my second on but if someone at school messes with him he is all over them.

I find that the best thing to do is(unless they are drawing blood) I ignore it. I can't all the time, but I try. And if it gets to be to much, I send them outside..They hate that..I say "go outside, and when your done you guys can come back in"..They hate it cuase it's really cold...I make them bundle up and out they go..

Usually only takes about 10 mins an they are saying "mom we will stop fighting"...

Good luck, mine are on spring break right now AND I am moving this week...I swear god invented spring break to get back at us parents...