Toffer

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I think you need to try and confirm that there isn't something else still going on with him and whomever.

You need to go into investigative role but do it quietlt. Do you have acces to the cell phone account? If you do, look at how mant texts he is sending and receiving and from/to whom.

If you find alot, you need to go to the enxt step which would be to place a voice activated recorder (VAR) under the seat of his car (use velcro to secure it in place). Cheaters feel very safe talking in their cars

Next or concurrently, you can put a keylogger on the pc to see what he's up to.

Until you can determine whether this is a dead issue or not, the two of you will not be able to move into any type of repairing the marriage mode