phantomfan

You can drive yourself nuts with this kind of thing. I know I did in the past with my previous relationship. I had a serial cheater and she never came clean unless I found a smoking gun. Even then "I" was crazy...

What got my ex to stop chasing someone else was I started getting my house in order. I stopped begging her and I started having fun, appearing to move on. That stopped her shenanigans pretty quickly when I was no longer the "sure thing" and she might lose me. I wished it didn't work (at least with her) but it does seem to pull someone back who appears to have NO interest in you.

I think you have two choices to consider. You can put your energy into chasing down his sk@nk and making him admit the affair (which won't unbreak the broken glass) or you can put your energy into becoming a better, more attractive person and positioning yourself to attract someone else. If your focus is on you and not on him, either he will come around or you'll be ready to find someone who won't ignore the most important call of duty for the virtual one on xbox live. If you choose to take him back, your in control. If you beg him to come back, he's in control and will likely do it again. Well he's likely to do it again anyways. They say, once a cheater, always a cheater.