Originally Posted by Immortalone

It sounds to me like your new wife is demanding that your father basicaly divorce children that he considers to be his grandkids. personaly I find her to be realy self centered on this subject. To me that would be the same as if she said sorry but you can't see any child you had from a prevous marriage. Thats just wrong no matter how you look at it. Maybe you need to talk to him alone. Explane that she is feeling uncared about and maybe he could spend some quality time with her. She should not be telling him not to see what he conceaves as his grandkids thouogh. Nothing else think about how painfull for the kids that would be.