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Old 03-22-2012, 10:37 AM   #7 (permalink)
bizzy79
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Default Re: Mismatch of 'drives'

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Originally Posted by A Bit Much View Post
Does she outright reject you when you initiate?

It's funny. I have the higher drive of the two of us, but I prefer him to initiate sex. There was a time where this frustrated him, but we've been married almost 10 years and he has come to understand it's my way. I do intiate, but just not very often. I don't want to approach him if he's exhausted. I like it when he signals me that he's in the mood.

I'm weird, I know.

She does not always outright reject me, but if no rejection, I can normally tell that she is not really enjoying things. It's different at different times!

Your situation (if I was your hubby) would be perfect for me! A wife who wants sex often, but I get to choose when it happens! He is a very lucky guy
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