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Old 04-01-2008, 07:36 AM   #4 (permalink)
juls
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Default Re: Selfish

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Originally Posted by Kenya26 View Post
Recently I went to the doctor for a pregnancy test b/c my cycle was late.

We didnt get tested before getting married and it is likely that one of us was infected previously b/c we have only been married six months.

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. I was really hurt when I found out b/c I felt like it was a very selfish act. This is not the first time that he has shown a strong selfish side to him. I cant get over it, I feel so betrayed! I feel like a ton of bricks hit me in my chest. He seems very non-chalant about it all.......what do I do?
What I am trying to make sense of is first you say " one of us" then you say he is being selfish and you are betrayed...I am seriously just trying to make sense..Do you know FOR SURE you didn't have it?.....Do you know for sure you didn't give it to him?...

If you don't then you can't possibly lay the blame on him entirely..It was irresponsible of you both not just him...
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