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stav · 04-01-2008, 08:55 AM

If it's not too extreme, offer to try some of the kind of thing he is looking at... something mild, just to see.. you may both find you like it. It may be that once he has tried it 'in real life' the obsession with this sort of thing will fade.

Be very sure it is something you can handle though. While sex is different for everybody, only you can know what you like and don't like. If you really don't like it, then you shouldn't have to do it.

04-01-2008, 08:55 AM	#4 (permalink)
stav Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: London Posts: 151	Re: How important is honesty? If it's not too extreme, offer to try some of the kind of thing he is looking at... something mild, just to see.. you may both find you like it. It may be that once he has tried it 'in real life' the obsession with this sort of thing will fade. Be very sure it is something you can handle though. While sex is different for everybody, only you can know what you like and don't like. If you really don't like it, then you shouldn't have to do it.