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mollyL · 04-01-2008, 09:30 AM

When it comes to sex, you will find that your body has undergone changes here or there, and at least for a little while, the sexual "favorites" may not come so easy and you may need to "slide into them". I'm sure you will find some new and just as wonderful things to do.
Naptime is exactly the time to start getting back into things, but I would recommend that you spend a week or two just holding each other. You may find for the first few days that you or both of you fall dead asleep, and that's OK. Speak to each other softly and look at each other's face. You can talk about anything at all, but beginning to remember what life was like before the twins, or even before your marriage, would be a good start.
You'll know when it's time to pet. Maybe you like your cheek stroked, for example, and you know what your hubby likes. You'll also know the time is right for sex. Be friends, be affectionate, have fun, be giving of yourself, even be silly. It can be so sweet to reconnect, and it sounds that you two are ready to begin. Good luck to both of you.

04-01-2008, 09:30 AM	#9 (permalink)
mollyL Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 126	Re: What Would You Like Your Wife To Do For U??? When it comes to sex, you will find that your body has undergone changes here or there, and at least for a little while, the sexual "favorites" may not come so easy and you may need to "slide into them". I'm sure you will find some new and just as wonderful things to do. Naptime is exactly the time to start getting back into things, but I would recommend that you spend a week or two just holding each other. You may find for the first few days that you or both of you fall dead asleep, and that's OK. Speak to each other softly and look at each other's face. You can talk about anything at all, but beginning to remember what life was like before the twins, or even before your marriage, would be a good start. You'll know when it's time to pet. Maybe you like your cheek stroked, for example, and you know what your hubby likes. You'll also know the time is right for sex. Be friends, be affectionate, have fun, be giving of yourself, even be silly. It can be so sweet to reconnect, and it sounds that you two are ready to begin. Good luck to both of you.