Originally Posted by kuyaeye
that is an option i have debated, but at the same time i want to be the bigger person and not stoop to her level. i also don't want to piss her off so bad that she won't come back to me.
So just make it very clear to her that yes you do want to fix things, and it would just be best to have a bit of space for awhile for the two of you to sort things out. Staying there together probably wont achieve that.
Could you go stay with someone for a couple of weeks? If the problems are complicated though, it could end up taking much much longer.
I really don't see how you can separate and still sleep in the same bed.