Kenya26

I think that I can feel what you are saying. Since I have joined, I have made it a point that when I decide to respond to someone to do so in the best way that I can. I know what you mean.....when someone tells you the obvious answer it becomes more like duh.....I knew that, I wanted you to share some of your lifes experiences with me and provide real-life examples and answers not the obvious. I totally understand what you mean. I was trying to get an answer myself and someone responded to me like a child, mind you while restating what I said and what was obvious. It makes you question the intent of help groups or forums such as this one. I have to admit though that so far, for the most part, I have really enjoyed being invited into the lives of others and having them share in my problems and help me to come up with some solutions. I didn't take what you said the wrong way at all, here...in this forum, you don't want to feel like you are talking to your mother getting a strong "I told you so".

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Kenya26