Originally Posted by zaliblue
So my husband is really curious about the anal sex thing....we've been together for 9 years just about, and i've let him "put it in" like 1 or 2 times.....It freaking hurts, and that's why we avoid it....but i know that it excites him....it kind of excited me too, but it's hard to get over the pain....also, I'm worried that if we do that, then there won't be anything left that he feels the need to conquer...i guess you could say that....also, I would be scared that he would prefer anal all the time compared to regular sex....I think that it would be one of those things that I would only want every now and then....because he's my husband, and I think he's entitled to all of me....are there any tips that could help with the pain? And before the question is asked, we have tried lube, and he's VERY VERY gentle about it....but it still hurts....thanks a lot!
Not to say that I've tried anal but girlfriends talk so i've heard a few things. I guess your supposed to start with anal balls or whatever they are called. If it hurts his girth is probably too much for your ass. I have considered it but I've just heard to many horror stories to even go there. Bleeding for a week every time you go number 2, stuff like that and worse. Plus the pain. My girlfriend said she wouldn't suggest it to me unless I get off on pain as that's what it's like for a while and not just the first time.
Anyway, hopefully someone with experience will post.
I am curious, does this mean that you are entitled to all of him?
What about his anus? It shouldn't be one sided, just say'n.