| | Re: we are separating...
dcrim, that is a horrible thing to say! I have been where she is, having panic attacks and crying all the time. It is an awful place to be in.
She needs space. Kyeaeye, can you move in with a friend or with your parents?
The reason she is having panic attacks is because she doesnt see away out. And, she wants it to wrok but cant see how it will. If she was over you she wouldn't be having panick attacks...
You need to give her space and, from personal experience, it takes about two onths to be in the right head space to move forward together with councelling... You both just need "time out"... Can you go some place for a month or two?
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