Originally Posted by Kenya26

You have totally misunderstood the meaning of my post. I gave the background situation to explain why my feelings were hurt and to also provide an example of what I consider to be selfishness. I am not blaming him for the std. We were both irresponsible for not being tested ahead of time. I can not rightfully say it was him or me. I was only stating that once I found out, I waited for him to get tested before getting the medicine, so that we could begin taking it the same day, so that we would be on the healing process together. However, as soon as he left the doctor, he took his prescription, got it filled and took his medication. I thought that it was selfish of him not to pick mine up for me. That is the point hun!! I am an adult, I knew better than to not get tested before getting married, but I got busy....too busy to check on my health. That is a mistake that I will never make again. My question, to the entire forum, is was he being selfish in going to purchase meds for himself, not concerning himself with whether or not I had mine as well after I waited purposefully for him to be tested and get a prescription? Maybe someone else would be better suited to answer my question...thank you for the attempt.