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Originally Posted by GAsoccerman
OK Let me get this straight...
You been married so far fora quite a few years,
In various posts you ahve said your husband has homosexual tendencies, he is violent and abusive, he basically raped you to have a second child so you would not leave.
You found another man that you want to be with, but you are worried about what others would think?
You live in a small religious town and your brother is a preacher, saying you can get a divorce on Biblical terms but you should seek counseling.
I say your marriage is done and go see a lawyer, you do nto want to work it out from what you have posted about your husband, you want out but want validation that you are "doing the right thing".....for the children.
Honey, if your not happy, then go find happiness. But if you do so, please keep the children's best interest in play and at least be civil with your husband during the procedings and when it is over.
It really sounds like you are just looking for validation, that you already made up your mind. I wish you the best of luck.
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and excuse my rant here.....Had my husband dropped my daughter for WHATEVER lame reason he gave... I would have throw him down the stairs. Viiolent for me to think that way ..Yeah...But you know what as much as I will preach your husband comes first before all and the rest falls into place.. This is where I draw the line. Not to mention he doesn't listen when you say no. Hell no...I have been violently raped(at 17)and hubby knows when I say no, he should listen.
Sweetheart the things you describe here tell me the first thing you need to do is worry about you and those babies safety above all eles. If he says "oh I will kill myself"...Doubtful, just another way for him to keep control of you. If he was gonna do it he wouldn't talk about it.
I wish you luck and will keep you and your daughters in my prayers. I fear for your safety...
