Originally Posted by Kenya26

Ok....this one is a duzey! I thought I had some pretty sound advice until I came to the end of your posting. Blind/Crippled?? I would not feel too threatened. The bigger picture is not her, but the lack of respect for your wishes. First off, switching churches or religions is a big deal in a marriage, as church is a family stabilizing experience. He should not have been so rash in the decision to do this. Also, when your spouse expresses feelings of uneasiness with another individual, that should be taken into consideration. It should not just be blown off as jealousy, a spouses feelings should be considered. It sounds like you and your feelings are being disregarded and taken forgranted. If you can't go on the trip then he should not go either. You two should really consider talking about the future.