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savannah · 03-26-2012, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by chillymorn

if he is truly BPD then don't in sickness and in health kick in or is that just mumbo jombo that everybody says at their wedding and it really means if you don't meet my needs I'm out of here.

I'm not trying to be smart Its a true question if he can't help it because he is mentaly sick then dose that make it any better for you to accept?

Oh I hear your point CHILLYMORN, and yes I would like to think I am still an old fashioned girl when it comes to marriage and sticking it out... Been at this little thing we call mariage for 20 years now.... we are now 40 and believe me I thought in the beginning it was immaturity on the whole mood thing...... but 20 years later it still goes on, I think thats part of the "for worse" don't you? Having to have lived 20 years HOPING the man you married will change??

I don't mean to be senical about this whole deal, and granted I do get he needs help. BUT if he can't be convinced to do so, what am I suppose to do? Tie him up and drag him to a doctor? To a counselor?