swedish

I think it could go either way, depending on the woman. I guess 'Announcing' it sort of sounded like standing on the bed and shouting it loudly, lol, but for me personally if I knew the person well enough and we shared other intimate things, talking about sex and fantasies wouldn't scare me away and does make for a more interesting sex life when you feel more free to try new things. Fetishes could go either way...hearing about it would be one thing but if it were something that sounded really strange to me (for example, wearing diapers...read that in a forum somewhere) I would be concerned if they expected me to go along with it or wouldn't be satisfied otherwise. Yours actually is safe...easy for a woman to excite you without having to do anything outside of their comfort zone. Timing is everything for me...also fairly conservative when I was dating, if a man started talking sexual before I got to know them it was a major turn-off for me...but that's just me.