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MarryMe · 03-26-2012, 08:24 PM

Thank you for all the advice here, I'm not the one who posted the query but I learned and enjoyed reading it a lot...

StarryEyed, you are not alone...I'm on the same exact situation, mine was 7 years together, 6 years married and yes there will com to a point that both will lose interest, but I admit, I was part of the problem as I don't make any efforts to make amends on our situation...

I do love my husband too, but you are right, I don't feel the spark...I married the guy and one of the reason is he is drop dead gorgeous and until now he is but I don't see myself being crazy about him like what I had before.....

I miss the feeling of being important and I miss the attention like treating you as you are the only girl in the world...My husband is even quite popular in his work and young women drool over him

However, my husband even lost the affection to me, all he did was to use all these gadgets and his ps3 sucks like hell

And there's this one guy whom I met while I was with girlfriends having ice cream, he is so straight forward and I could melt with his staring adorable eyes, he won't take his eyes off of me....but of course I never entertained as I know I am so married and this marriage really has to last a lifetime for me

However after several months of him hunting and pursuing me down where he could contact me (he has his ways and he is so intellect), he emailed me like a spam and there, I never entertained those first bunch of emails and send me but next email he pleads like a lonely child... I give it a shot and offered him friendship which is the only thing I can give to him...Same as you, I don't intend to have an affair....

But time pass by and I'm beginning to like him and cant't get him out of my head like an infatuated foolish girl, we always have a sensible and fun conversations...anything and everything under the sun....like you know how it feels when you're starting with someone

I found this site to get an advice, and hope I could try all these stuff I can do....

I also want to save my marriage and I won't pursue the other since it should not meant to happen....

03-26-2012, 08:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
MarryMe Registered User Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 1	Re: How to fall in love with your husband again? Thank you for all the advice here, I'm not the one who posted the query but I learned and enjoyed reading it a lot... StarryEyed, you are not alone...I'm on the same exact situation, mine was 7 years together, 6 years married and yes there will com to a point that both will lose interest, but I admit, I was part of the problem as I don't make any efforts to make amends on our situation... I do love my husband too, but you are right, I don't feel the spark...I married the guy and one of the reason is he is drop dead gorgeous and until now he is but I don't see myself being crazy about him like what I had before..... I miss the feeling of being important and I miss the attention like treating you as you are the only girl in the world...My husband is even quite popular in his work and young women drool over him However, my husband even lost the affection to me, all he did was to use all these gadgets and his ps3 sucks like hell And there's this one guy whom I met while I was with girlfriends having ice cream, he is so straight forward and I could melt with his staring adorable eyes, he won't take his eyes off of me....but of course I never entertained as I know I am so married and this marriage really has to last a lifetime for me However after several months of him hunting and pursuing me down where he could contact me (he has his ways and he is so intellect), he emailed me like a spam and there, I never entertained those first bunch of emails and send me but next email he pleads like a lonely child... I give it a shot and offered him friendship which is the only thing I can give to him...Same as you, I don't intend to have an affair.... But time pass by and I'm beginning to like him and cant't get him out of my head like an infatuated foolish girl, we always have a sensible and fun conversations...anything and everything under the sun....like you know how it feels when you're starting with someone I found this site to get an advice, and hope I could try all these stuff I can do.... I also want to save my marriage and I won't pursue the other since it should not meant to happen....