| | Re: Wife suddenly does not love me...possible separation, I am in shock!
@Toshiba2020 - more great advice - thank you very much.
I would not say I am a slob, I cook all meals. Clean up after myself. Do the laundry, do the grocery shopping, pack lunches, get my son to school, pick up my son from school, I take him to swimming lessons etc. However I know that my wife resents the fact that I do very little yard maintenance. So I could pick up my game a bit there. My handyman skills have always been poor...which I think she resents a bit.
If there is another man, I don't think he would be the bad boy type...she was attracted to me as I played in a band (still do), had tattoos and partied hard (I don't do that any more). I think it would be more likely a fitness guy with home maintenance skills and a high paying job.
I do have a lot of friends. Many of whom are tied up in relationships, with kids etc But it might be time to reconnect with them.
You are right. I need to man up and not mope around feeling sorry for myself.