Yea timing is everything that is for sure. Not sure if I have any fetish, I don't know Maybe my wife is my fetish??

I like to try new things sexually I am a very curious person by nature, always exploring everything and anything. But I learned over time and of my curiousities that I want to bring to my wife has to be done at the right time of month, which after 18 years I ahve picked up when to say something or keep my mouth shut
I am turned on my wife by the simpliest of things, like a school boy dating for the first time.
I find some fetishes completely gross some are interesting. I also learned when I ahve seen the craziest thing out there....something else shocks me.
But my wife is very submissive, I ahd her dress in leather one time and some hot leather platform boots, and had her be a dominating woman, she LOVED it, it gave her a rush to have full control over me, to make me do what ever popped in her head, it totally goes against her nature as a person. But it was a fun role play experiment that we were both comfortable and had fun doing, because we love and trust each other.
So bottom line if you got a fetish, find someone you can enjoy it with.