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Amplexor · 04-03-2008, 09:59 AM

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I’m glad things are looking up for you and happy birthday. Counselors work in different ways but most will ask that they meet with each of you individually so that is not a bad sign. They will try to get a handle on each side of the story then work to bring you together. I’m happy that your husband is following through on his commitment for the sessions. Trust is a difficult thing to rebuild in a marriage and frankly he owes you a lot because of his actions. He will need to be the one to open himself up to you so you can become confident in his commitments to you again. My situation is different but I am coming up on one year since the wheels fell off our marriage. But we are still together and parts of the marriage are stronger then they have been in years. We still aren’t where we want to be as a couple but we both feel so much better than we did last spring and summer. Take care and be aware this could take a very long time. See my signature below and take those four words to heed. With time and effort these things can get better. They have in my case. Good luck.

04-03-2008, 09:59 AM	#6 (permalink)
Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Midwest Posts: 712	Re: Please help...I feel so low today e stars I’m glad things are looking up for you and happy birthday. Counselors work in different ways but most will ask that they meet with each of you individually so that is not a bad sign. They will try to get a handle on each side of the story then work to bring you together. I’m happy that your husband is following through on his commitment for the sessions. Trust is a difficult thing to rebuild in a marriage and frankly he owes you a lot because of his actions. He will need to be the one to open himself up to you so you can become confident in his commitments to you again. My situation is different but I am coming up on one year since the wheels fell off our marriage. But we are still together and parts of the marriage are stronger then they have been in years. We still aren’t where we want to be as a couple but we both feel so much better than we did last spring and summer. Take care and be aware this could take a very long time. See my signature below and take those four words to heed. With time and effort these things can get better. They have in my case. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.