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juls · 04-03-2008, 01:59 PM

Nah, I have been hurt plenty in my life, in 15 yrs of marriage a 4 kids later...But one thing I have learned fromt that is that getting insecure about a porn image is useless. If he is coming to you and still desires you then there is nothing to be insecure about.

However, I went back an re-read your post and only in one spot did you mention anything about the sex being non existant and it only said "the sex is back in action"..

Now if he is looking at porn and withholding from you, then yes it is wrong and you have every right to be hurt and emotional about it.

Porn can be healthy within a marriage as long as it is not replacing the other spouse. I said that in another thread also.

04-03-2008, 01:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
juls Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 49	Re: My husband, internet porn, now what? Nah, I have been hurt plenty in my life, in 15 yrs of marriage a 4 kids later...But one thing I have learned fromt that is that getting insecure about a porn image is useless. If he is coming to you and still desires you then there is nothing to be insecure about. However, I went back an re-read your post and only in one spot did you mention anything about the sex being non existant and it only said "the sex is back in action".. Now if he is looking at porn and withholding from you, then yes it is wrong and you have every right to be hurt and emotional about it. Porn can be healthy within a marriage as long as it is not replacing the other spouse. I said that in another thread also.