Beechnut

[quote=demora;6225]If he's not doing it anymore, then take it at face value. He was curious about it and he got sucked in for a short time. He was not happy either from the sounds of it when he was surfing the porn.

You are right! I should take it at face value, but when you say he was sucked in for a short time, two years is not a short time to me, but maybe he just couldn't get out of the habit, whatever, it has stopped and that’s what’s important. I still have a hard time with the fact that when all this came out in the open and I asked him why he continued to look at it, he couldn't come up with an answer better than I don't know why. We had a conversation about a year ago, I told him I was not happy with our marriage and he sat right in front of me and told me he was.....well now we all know that he was into the porn thing at the time. Why didn't he say something to me when I gave him the chance? How could he have been looking at porn in our house for so long, makes me think he is kind of sneaky. Oh here I go again, see it just keeps coming back. But these are things I will never gat an answer for so I should stop asking. And to tell you the truth, Its not such a big deal anymore, and in time, with making new memories together I may not think about it at all. Thanks for your help.