Originally Posted by Hope1964
So at what point does titillation become more than just titillation? We could argue that all day, but we're never going to agree. A woman grinding on my husband after he's paid her to do so is NOT ok with me. Him reading erotica to me or watching porn on TV while he screws me is.
Strip clubs are worse to me than non internet porn because they're live. Thankfully my hubby agrees with me so it isn't an issue for us. If you as a guy think strip clubs are OK then find a wife who agrees. If you as a woman think they aren't ok then find a hubby like mine who agrees. The sides are just too far apart here to ever meet, as all the strip club threads on here can attest to.
I think I will copy this post somewhere so I don't have to type it all out again the next time this comes up.
I actually think its a matter of boundaries and trust. Morrigan knows I would never lower my boundaries in a strip club (or anywhere else for that matter). I really never drank much when I went. I would never even take the slightest chance of compromising my judgement. Frankly the drinks were overpriced and watered down anyway. I really don't do internet porn either. I know in my case the only reason I even agreed to go to a strip club was because it was with other guys and it was a male bonding thing. At least when I was younger. Not much male bonding occurs in internet porn. At least none I want to be a part of. I just don't have much use for either indulgences to be honest.