| | Re: Man up, be more responsive to HER needs, help more...
You're reading too much into the whole text issue. First off, people often stop responding as a way to control the conversation (often unknowingly) and keep the sender entised. She didn't mean anything by it, women are notorious for doing this because men chase... Though there are situations where it isn't always possible and people do forget sometimes.
You also got what is all to familiarly known as a "blur" where she forgot about the seduction from before. Again don't take it personally... That conversation you had died after you both stopped texting and your "wtf?!" response seemed out of place. You have to let those kind of things slide and seduce her all over again. Being married you should know you might not always get sex when you were promised, but those kind words and the clean house she comes home to will no go unappreciated later on.
Instead of allowing your emotions to get you needy or resentful around her just act like it's no big deal. If she wants to curl up on the couch then offer to get her something to show you care then give her the space she needs while you do your own thing. What, you going to fein interest in a movie that's half way through in hopes that she will validate your action? I bet there were dishes just begging to be washed and three or four things on her "honey do" list you haven't done. Just don't make it appearant that you're doing them to please her.
If you're having this much trouble then check out some of the dating books. You can download a ton of them from thepiratebay or isohunt for free. You can get just about all the same knowledge from a handful of them but go ahead and get "the mystery method" or "magic bullets". Either one will work to explain a few things and how if you're going to have sex with your wife you have to first attract her, then comfort her, then seduce her. There's a lot more to it than that ad you'll have to be more confident but an afternoon of reading will really set you straight.