Originally Posted by 7737
Nsweet - 'offer to get her something to show I care'...??? Yeah right! How about HER doing something for ME occasionally to show that SHE cares?
Why continue depositing money into your account if you dont get any interest in return?
Deejo - I think I might just start having memory lapses....
Dude, you are getting bad advice. This has nothing to do with "doing more things for her". The more you do, the less you'll get. You are her BETA roommate. You still have a little sex appeal, so she plays a bit, but this is going the wrong direction fast. Go buy Married Man Sex Life - like now and read it.
You can send Athol a thank you when your wife turns into a sexual dynamo.
Also, read No More Mr. Nice Guy. You are building resentments and this is a death sentence for your marriage. Your text exchange is whiny. I would be turned off. Where is the aggressive, sexy, funny man that wooed this woman however many years ago? He didn't show up for that text exchange and the movie was just a satisfying.
Wife: "I have a 2 pm gyno appointment"
You: "Cool, I'll be home at 3:30 with my white lab coat to make sure she did a good job. Dress appropriately and wait on the couch. Text me when you leave the appointment."