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Old 03-29-2012, 08:39 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Default Re: Man up, be more responsive to HER needs, help more...

Me 'Absolutely...I love you and I want to make love to you more than maybe once a month'

Her ' well come home now then!'

ME 'I wish I could...am about to go into a meeting and when the gynae looks up you she won't want to see a load of 'me' up there!'


Answer:

"You know what, call and cancel your appointment."

"I just told the meeting I had a family crisis and I had to go"

"I am 5 minutes away, start without me, and I'll be ripping my tie off as I come up the stairs....."



She issued you a challenge and you let it drop. Work was more important to you, than she was. Next time get home and act like you own it.
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