the guy

If she is going to act like a baby she needs to be treated like one.

First she needs to stop bring her work home with her. she may or may not learn this until she gets older in her career or you man up and stop tolorating. Often a good spanking is in order.

As an alpha male you have every right to be firm but fair, and her crap from work should be hung on the tree in the front yard, she then can pick it up on her way back to work....if you know what I mean.

Respect is commanded so stop tolorating her bringing her work home and show her what happens when she can't put her big girl pants on and act like a professional and comes home a *sore losser* and treats her man like sh!t.

The big point is your tolorating it...stop enabling her to abuse you and show the confidence that will show her you can move on if she can't seperate her job and her love life.

Again be supportive, but firm in the belief that you want respect. Her tune should change once she gets bent over your knee.

In all serious man.... they get away with what we tolorate and what we let them get away with, so stand up and face her with an ego and confidence that shows her you are a man that command (NOT demands) respect. How ever you want to do this, just be fair and understanding, as you calmly acknowledge her bullsh!t towards you.