Re: Where to Start
Shinerbock, you are a lucky man for a couple of reasons. First, that you have someone who loves you and is willing to forgive you. Second, you have the emotional and rational capacity to take responsibility for what you did and for understanding how important communication really is in a long term relationship. Not all people who make mistakes are able to understand what they did nor would they take responsibility for it. I would let your fiance decide at which pace to proceed because she will need to relearn to trust you. Be consistent and confident in your efforts so show you have changed and that you can be trusted again. She will need to make consistent efforts to show her appreciation and love for you. If you both love each other, and you are both committed to making your relationship a happy and healthy one, then it will work out for you. Keep communicating and good luck.
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