Originally Posted by phillybrokenheart
@ CLucas976 - PA is not the same. I knew I should have moved to NY, lol.
But I feel better! I got an email from my attorney this morning. He said that he is only entitled to half of any INCREASE in the equity from date of marriage to date of separation. Which was only 6 months, AND property values in the City have decreased! So his amount is going to be half of ZERO!
He is supposedly coming around here today/tonight. He sent me a text late last night saything "This is how its going down, and thats all thats to it, Im coming around there tomorrow and getting my weight bench and whatever else I have!"
The only thing left is the weight bench. But today will not work for me, so he can knock all he wants to.
As long as I know he cant hurt my parents, then I dont care what he does or says.
I'll tell you tho, this has really been a hurtful eye opener! Someone who claimed to love me soooo much - all those nasty things he said yesterday, all thats he has done in the past 4 months, and then what he threatened about taking me to court to go after my parents house!!! Im beside myself! This is what kind of love he had for me. And I really did love him. I really really did.
Isn't it amazing what "love" does to someone? You love me and yet you told the whole county and your parents that I'm a fat ***** who cheats on you? (which never happened. I have such terrible self image that even the idea of trying to flirt with another guy sends me into an anxiety attack, and we've been apart for over a year now) pasted your twisted version of our dirty laundry all over my workplace, and invited a pregnant girl to live with you?
Once it's far enough in the past, it's kind of funny really. You will find yourself laughing at how incredibly stupid and false the behaviors you're currently putting up with really are, and wondering how on earth they bothered you so much.
Glad that he gets nothing from his threat even if he did go through with it. If I were you I'd put the work bench outside and leave it for him. keep it together lady, theres at least less stressful men out there