| | Re: He came back with a vengence!
When my wife used my love to get me out of the house by saying "if you love me you will give me some space, go to your dad's house for 2 weeks and I promise we'll be ok". three days later I got an email that she wanted a divorce. Instead of lashing out to her I called and asked what happened. everytime she would just hang up on me. so instead of getting mad I decided to look at why she would do this. slowly I realized my mistakes and decided to fix them. She has a house under both our names. (she pays all the mortgage which is part of why she left me I feel). along with other issues I have. but I once told her that I would be different than most. I would show her love in these hard times. Instead of name calling or having anger and trying to hurt her, I would respect her decisions and try to work on myself. so long story short. I would never fight for her house. my dad raised me correct and I would not ever hurt my beautiful princess like that. I've realized that I love is priceless and in times some choose to hurt the ones they cared for. but I decided I hurt her enough with my depression and it's time to grow as a person. I guess your husband has decided to go with anger instead of love. you hurt him and instead of healing he decided to hurt you back. stay strong