carmaenforcer

I was cheated on by my (now) Wife back when we first got together as a couple. The guy she cheated on me with was her ex-boyfriend right before me.
I obviously forgave her, since we are married now, but I will never forget or trust her the same way ever again.
I wish for a head injury that would just erase that horrible memory from my mind once and for ever but it's there to stay.
The feeling that she could do it again is always there no matter how cool things are between us and I use it to keep me grounded in reality.

We actually ran into the guy my Wife cheated on me with last night while out to dinner with another couple. She must have seen him first because she blurted out "oh sh_t" while in the middle of a conversation with the other girl at our table. I was busy talking to that other girls husband and feeding my baby boy chips but caught that outburst since it was so out of place.

I didn't put too much mind to it, but then when we were leaving I saw him a few tables over. My Wife didn't make a big deal about it, I don't think she knows I saw him and she hasn't volunteered the information but that's cool. He saw us both too when we were leaving but just looked away real quick.

I know that last part had no value to your situation but I thought it was funny.

Do you know who the guy is and where they met? Is he someone from her work or someone she interacts with on a regular? Can you really trust anything that comes out of her mouth right now?

Good luck from the bottom of my heart.