Originally Posted by Chrissie0511

I sometimes feel like I would do anything for my husband, I would go to the ends of the earth for him, but he won't do that for ANYONE else, not even me, his wife. I have jumped in and helped him financially when necessary, I have helped him physically when necessary. He thinks that I am supposed to bow down to his feet or something just because he moved me from an apartment to a house. He thinks that just because he married me I am supposed to be thankful, like there was nobody else that would have ever chosen me. That's how it makes me feel sometimes. Now, that is just a part of my dilemma, now when it comes to helping me with something such as changing the tires on my truck or helping me fix something, he will not lend a hand, he will not help me in any way shape or form, he will give me what he thinks is good advice, but he will not jump up and say hey, let me take that tire off for you and go put a new one on, I am expected to do all of this myself. To be honest, I have never been with a man that has ever made me do these things myself, I have always had my brother, or dad to do it for me too, but my husband, the man who is supposed to be my everything just won't help me with any of this. I don't know what to do or how to get him to see it. Just so that you are aware, I have even helped him take his motorcycle apart to help him change the spark plugs. I had no clue what I was doing, but I helped him because I love him and decided to be there to help, but when the table turns, I can't get that help. I just don't understand it.