Originally Posted by morituri
So if we can pounce on a betrayed husband for having been emotionally neglectful in the past to his cheating wife, does that mean we can pounce on a betrayed wife for having been sexually neglectful in the past to her cheating husband?
Of course not , the man is always in the wrong ;~)
The way I look at it, if someone is that unhappy they should say so long before it gets to that point, but maybe then, they just don't want to, it would remove an excuse to go. After all if a wife went to hubby early on and said "Hub the I'm feeling a bit strange these days, not sure why, can we talk" Most loving hubbies would jump through hoops to listen and help. I know I would have.