Originally Posted by shinyzebra
I am often sexually frustrated and telling him this and pointing out his porn-watching together could be offensive and I see it turning him into defense mode and the convo being an argument instead of something helpful.
Do you mean by sexually frustrated that he is not interested in sex with you? If so, this is exactly the situation I found myself in when I was dating my H. We had only been together three months when it all started going downhill. How long have you two been together? Married before?
"I'm a lover of what is, not because I'm a spiritual person, but because it hurts when I argue with reality."
- Bryon Katie