| | Re: Just found out my Ex is a Lesbian
you didn't make her unhappy
do not take that onus on yourself
and yes you deserved the truth
you deserved better
you deserve a loving and honest partner
and unfortunately she isn't the person who is capable giving you what you needed or deserved. I would imagine that this is very similar to the same feeling of betrayal I got with my wife's infidelity so I understand your conflicted emotions.
But know this- this was never your fault, this was out of your control, you were operating in a marriage without all of the facts and you can't possibly expect to have made it "better" even if you did know.