| | Re: Devastating Situation - What would you do?
I don't think you have the truth here. IF she had a ONS and took the morning after pill, then it couldn't be his.
Doesn't add up.
I bet you'll find it was more than a ONS, and the truth is more likely he dumped her when she told him she was pregnant.
You are her fall back. The ONS story and the morning after pill are her way of trying to cover up that she willingly cheated AND she wants you to now raise for next 18 years another mans kid.
Oh, and she did this while you were trying to have a kid! So she knew very much what would happen.
Also, If she was that medicated etc - then it would have been RAPE. But she's not treating it that way is she?
Dump and run. Get a lawyer NOW and take steps to ensure you are not listed as the father and responsible for paying for this other man's child.
Do not stay out of a sense of responsibility to her or guilt. She choose to sleep with and to conceive another man's kid and try to get you to raise it. That's down right evil.