| | Re: Devastating Situation - What would you do?
Marriage is hard enough as it is.
Your wife waited 8 months for a reason. There is no way to divorce before the baby is born. Make sure you have a good lawyer. Take out a loan if you have to. In the long run it will be cheaper. If you let this go, you will have resentment... It will happen again. She put herself in a position that a ONS was possible. IMO, once a cheater, always a cheater. Stick around here for a while and you will read about so many stories, it will make your head spin.
You must reall love your wife to even consider keeping her. It's a shame that she doesn't feel the same way.