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the guy · 04-03-2012, 12:05 PM

There is a good chance that in a month this poor baby will come out looking nothing like you....hence the long awaited truth from your WW.

Step back protect your self by getting a lawyer and give your self the time before you have your lawyer pull the trigger. There may even be a good chance that once your WW hears about the step you are taking she may come completly clean, and with that you may have all the pieces that you will have in knowing what you are forgiving her for.

The thing here is you truely don't know what you are forgiving her for, for now this ONS is only that, but it could turn out that the ONS does change into a relationship. What I'm saying is this ONS guy could change his mind....especially when he no longer has any responsablity for the bastard child but gets to reap the benifites of having your wife on the side.

There is a strong possiblity that things have cooled down and the affair is deep underground until your WW is back on her feet. A poly graph test my also be in order, having some questions asked to iether confirm or deny that this guy is what she says is and he will/won't resurface once his kid is born. Then not only to have the child to deal with but also deal with your WW seeing the other man while he visits his child.

04-03-2012, 12:05 PM	#15 (permalink)
the guy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: CA Posts: 7,294	Re: Devastating Situation - What would you do? There is a good chance that in a month this poor baby will come out looking nothing like you....hence the long awaited truth from your WW. Step back protect your self by getting a lawyer and give your self the time before you have your lawyer pull the trigger. There may even be a good chance that once your WW hears about the step you are taking she may come completly clean, and with that you may have all the pieces that you will have in knowing what you are forgiving her for. The thing here is you truely don't know what you are forgiving her for, for now this ONS is only that, but it could turn out that the ONS does change into a relationship. What I'm saying is this ONS guy could change his mind....especially when he no longer has any responsablity for the bastard child but gets to reap the benifites of having your wife on the side. There is a strong possiblity that things have cooled down and the affair is deep underground until your WW is back on her feet. A poly graph test my also be in order, having some questions asked to iether confirm or deny that this guy is what she says is and he will/won't resurface once his kid is born. Then not only to have the child to deal with but also deal with your WW seeing the other man while he visits his child.