lorip_curtiss

I have just recently been around this situation with a couple of friends of mine. The problem is, she really does need space. She is probably feeling like all of your sudden trying now is fake just so you can get back to the way things were. If she says she needs space then she really does. One of two things will happen...She will either realize what she is missing by not being with you, or she will realize that things are better without you. Either way she will have time to figure out what will make her happy in th long run. And if you really loved her thats all you should want, is for her to be happy. Let her know, that you have not given up on the two of you and you will be there when or if she is ready. But if she chooses not to be with you anymore, you are ok with that because you just want her to be happy. Do something to show you have changed without smothering her. It wouldnt do either one of you any good to be with each other if she was no longer wanted to be with you but chose to stay anyway. It would be living a lie. The sooner you give her room to think about things, the sooner you can move on with your life with or without her.