| | Re: What happens when your husband hates your son??
Frankly, it sounds like you need to stop catering to your husband.
I know that situation well, I grew up in it, except all 3 of us were good for nothing, and his one kid was gods gift to humanity. It got to a point where my step dad was trying to fight my little brothers. My mom never let it get to a point where he actually fought them. She left.
I'm certain you love your husband, but seriously, put your foot down on how it needs to be. Get him in counseling, whatever, but do you and your sons a favor and don't let his behavior continue, I personally think it's continued far too long as it is.